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 Welcome to Couples' Massage! This will be a whole new
kind of experience for most of you. I strongly suggest reading this page
as partners, together. You will both have specific roles and
responsibilities, this is a mutual adventure for both of you.
Before you contact me:
It is imperative
that you have a loving, caring relationship with each other. Each
partner has to understand that direct or indirect genital
stimulation might occur by a person other than the partner, and you both
have to be comfortable with this thought. At this point, talk it
over, then continue to read. I do not like "surprise massages", for
anniversary or birthday, etc, it takes valuable time away from the
experience if I have to go through the rules, roles and responsibilities
first, to put all parties at ease. If you are in agreement before we
meet, then you will both enjoy your experience far more. Please trust me
on this, I have seen it several times.
Establishing Comfort levels and Taboos:
This
is the first important step in a satisfying sensual experience. If there
are areas on your body you do not wish touched, I need to know. If the
techniques I use are too deep or too much pressure, please talk to me.
If there is a particular technique that you like very much, please feel
free to express yourself in any way you like. Say it, moan it,
hum it. If it feels good, I want to hear you.
My Role:
It is my role to be
the provider, the facilitator, and/or teacher. If you wish to
learn my techniques for future use at home, I will be glad to teach each
partner some basic relaxation techniques, or pain relieving wellness
techniques. I will be wearing light, comfortable attire, fitting the
circumstances.
I will not do anything to cause pain or discomfort,
or impose my will upon you. I respect your limits, please respect mine
in return.
Ladies First!:
I normally
start my couples' session with the female recipient. The gentleman may
sit in quiet or participate if the recipient gives her permission first.
If you have requests for stimulation by device (vibrator,etc.), please
provide it at the appropriate time. Health and sanitary rules will be in
place at all times. The lady may give her partner permission to
assist in the conclusion of the massage. This is, no doubt, a very
stimulating experience for any man in itself.
Gentlemen!:
The gentleman
now gets his opportunity to relax, and is rewarded for his patience.
Again, the partner may observe or assist me, with prior consent. I might
teach you some techniques you may not have been aware of.
If you are looking for ways to improve your relationship
with your partner, the Sinclair Institute has some great ideas
and aides for you.Click here to check them out!
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